If a parent begins showing signs of dementia, communication may change. This condition alters memory, comprehension, and speech, which can impact every conversation. Fortunately, with a proactive approach, you can approach conversations differently and better preserve your relationship with your parent.
First, think about how your loved one’s condition is affecting them. Then, you can use a mix of non-verbal communication, patience, and language simplification. You can even use specialized communication aids to make conversations even easier!
How Dementia Impacts Communication
When dementia progresses, it influences the way a person interacts with the world. This condition affects almost every part of the brain, from memory to language recall. This can make conversations more challenging, as a person may:
- Have difficulty recalling words or phrases mid-sentence.
- Repeat stories or questions without awareness.
- Lose track of the conversation, which leads to confusion.
- Struggle with instructions, especially those involving multiple steps.
- Have difficulty expressing needs, leading to frustration or withdrawal.
These changes change how a person approaches each conversation. However, with patience and empathy, you can adjust your strategy and continue to strengthen your bond.
Communication Tips for When Dementia Is Involved
Conversations may not always go as planned when dementia is involved. However, by incorporating specific strategies, you can increase the odds of a smoother conversation. To do so, you’ll need to make some practical changes like these.
Use Non-Verbal Communication
Words aren’t the only way to communicate. Non-verbal communication can help when verbal exchanges are challenging. It helps to:
- Pay attention to facial expressions and maintain a warm, approachable demeanor.
- Use gestures like nodding or pointing to clarify your message.
- Use reassuring touches, such as a gentle pat on the hand, to offer comfort without words.
Sometimes, a smile or an encouraging nod can say more than words ever could.
Slow Down & Simplify
When speaking, always keep in mind that communication works best when speech is clear and paced. Dementia may affect your loved one’s ability to understand complex thoughts, so try to:
- Use short, simple sentences to avoid overwhelming your parent.
- Speak slowly, giving them enough time to process the information.
- Repeat or rephrase statements to ensure understanding.
Remember, you aren’t “talking down” to them. Speaking simply helps create an environment where your parent feels heard and valued.
Encourage Two-Way Conversations
Active listening is a powerful tool for creating meaningful dialogue. Encourage your parent to contribute, even if their response isn’t perfect. During the conversation, make you:
- Nod, maintain eye contact, and use affirming words to show you’re engaged.
- Reflect back on their words, like “I hear you saying you’re feeling…” to validate their thoughts.
- Gently prompt them with questions they can easily answer.
The goal isn’t a perfectly smooth conversation, but to make your parent feel like their voice and feelings matter.
Handle Repetition with Patience
If your parent repeatedly asks the same question, remember that it’s a symptom of their condition, not a conscious choice. Make sure to:
- Respond calmly and kindly, even if you’re frustrated.
- Redirect the conversation when appropriate to reduce repetition.
- Take note of repeated questions to see if they indicate unmet needs.
Your responses shape the tone of the conversation. This is key to keeping them at ease.
Using Technology to Simplify Communication
Modern tools and practical aids can make these conversations even easier. All of these tools can help simplify things and take significant pressure away from the conversation itself.
Assistive Technologies
Certain technologies are designed to improve communication with individuals experiencing cognitive changes. This can include tools such as the following:
- Text-to-speech apps to help your parent write or articulate thoughts
- Digital memory frames that display photos and captions as conversation prompts
- Wearable devices that offer gentle reminders for daily activities
These tools support clarity and reduce misunderstandings. This makes communication much more fluid, which reduces the risk of distractions and confusion.
Communication Aids
Simple solutions can also make a big difference in overcoming challenges during conversations. Try to use:
- Picture boards or cards to help your parent point to specific needs.
- Hearing aids to improve audibility if hearing loss is also a concern.
- Visual schedules to help clarify routines and reduce confusion.
A bit of preparation with these resources can make daily conversations stress-free.
Support from Professionals
Professional services like memory care make a bigger difference than most people think. It’s a way to give your parent access to a wealth of resources designed to simplify their life.
In memory care, your loved one has access to:
- Structured activities that stimulate cognitive function.
- Personalized care plans tailored to their unique needs.
- A safe and secure environment to prevent wandering.
- Social opportunities to combat feelings of isolation.
- Therapy programs to improve and maintain cognitive abilities.
It’s an excellent way to help a parent in need. In memory care, your loved one is surrounded by a team of caregivers who truly know how to help.
Supporting Your Bond—Together
Dementia can be complicated, and it takes a new approach to keep communicating. However, sustaining a fulfilling and positive relationship with your parent is still possible. With adaptable strategies and supportive resources, you can nurture this relationship.
There’s no need to worry—you’re not alone. Our team at Woodbridge Place is happy to help your family in this journey. In our community, your loved one can receive daily support, and we’ll work with your family to keep communication strategies up to date. Schedule a tour with us today!
